An African man can wear the apron, the reward is in the bedroom

Most african men don't know this but speaking from past experience, it is that passionate and romantic to get in the kitchen and  surprise your wife or loved one and show her that you still, "got it." The best chefs I believe are men if you ask me. I have wined and dined enough in my lifetime to come to that conclusion. It is only in the conservative african culture that the men believe that it is the females responsibility to get in the kitchen and cook for the family. I have seen instances where the woman works longer hours and the man came home early or maybe is out of job in the interim and still expect the woman to come home after a long days work and cook, clean, iron and do the kids homework. The man sits on the couch and play with the remote control.Some women do all that and still get no kind of affection from the man when they are in the bedroom. I don't subscribe to the school of thought that calls this travesty african tradition. This is where western women are different from african women. An african-american woman  will speak up. But most african women would wait on the man to change and quote you all kinds of biblical verses. In the mean time the man doesn't even attend church with her except when someone is getting married or a baby christening ceremony. Wake up woman, that man will not change.
   Gentlemen, women love their feet rubbed, they love to be treated to a night out once in a while or once a month. Take her for a walk by the lake, park, buy her  flowers,go to her job and take her out for lunch, treat her to a fine restaurant, or movie. My favorite is getting in the kitchen, dawn that apron and cook her a hearty meal. Trust me when you cook that meal, she will sing your praises and will reward you big time in the bedroom. Women love candlelights bubble baths etc. Spend a weekend out of town in a nice hotel not at a family member or friends house when you are out of town. Remind your woman how sexy she still looks because a woman would notice when those compliments stops coming  or when you criticize the looks of her either directly or through a third person on a television screen. Women love to be held and shown affection in public. I can count in one hand african couples holding hands or kissing in public. Spice that relationship up, dawn that apron and make your woman smile. Yes, it does make sense!