Most african men don't know this but speaking from past experience, it is that passionate and romantic to get in the kitchen and surprise your wife or loved one and show her that you still, "got it." The best chefs I believe are men if you ask me. I have wined and dined enough in my lifetime to come to that conclusion. It is only in the conservative african culture that the men believe that it is the females responsibility to get in the kitchen and cook for the family. I have seen instances where the woman works longer hours and the man came home early or maybe is out of job in the interim and still expect the woman to come home after a long days work and cook, clean, iron and do the kids homework. The man sits on the couch and play with the remote control.Some women do all that and still get no kind of affection from the man when they are in the bedroom. I don't subscribe to the school of thought that calls this travesty african tradition. This is where western wo...